Er... I mean the much anticipated baby shower. *Sigh*. So, I love showers of all kinds: baby, bridal, wedding, etc. I love all the games, the company, the food and even most of all, watching the guest of honor open all her gifts. I think I am the only person who loves this part however but I am a nosy person so I want to see what people got the honoree. I hate when I go to birthday parties and they don't open the gifts in front of the guests. But that is the not the point of a b-day party... it is the point, however, of a shower.
Anywho.... as with any pregnancy, most people expect some sort of celebration to accompany the much awaited birth. Initially, I was against the idea of having a baby shower. I have to admit, I am a little embarrassed to have yet another one, after having already had THREE! I do believe every child is special and deserves to be celebrated but I was just not in the mood for another baby shower in my honor.
Well, hubby's family and my friends would not hear of such talk... no baby shower? What? It's almost like a crime. So I relented and allowed who ever felt the need to go ahead and make plans for a shower for this baby. After all, I am not going to REFUSE a party!
Now, I know about all the talk out there about how inappropriate or tacky it is to have a shower for a second, third, etc baby. I know there are a lot people who think that a baby shower should only be reserved for a first time mom, where the idea is to shower her with gifts to help out with the new baby and give her a head start in her new life as a parent. I know what the etiquette is... but seriously, screw etiquette. It is 2013. Not 1945. Times have changed and so should some people's thought process.
Now, no one I know in person thinks like this... I got all this from various message boards I have frequented throughout the years. And I was in shock at how many people shared such a sentiment. Like, why is it not OK to have a baby shower for a second or third child? Well, there are some exceptions to that "rule". If a child is born 5 plus years after the first (etc) and/or is the opposite sex, then a baby shower is OK. Some have even come up with a term to make a celebration for a second time (3rd, 4th, 5th) mom OK. It's called a "baby sprinkle'. The sprinkle, smaller than a shower, is a celebration where close friends and family get together and buy the mom to be again smaller items like diapers, wipes and other baby essentials that she might not (well, most likely doesn't) have. Since the sprinkle is a smaller event, it's faux paus for the mom to register. Without a registry, guests tend NOT to buy bigger items as they figure the mom should have these items in store from the first baby and should be able to reuse them (of course this thought process changes IF the next baby is coming over 5 years after the previous).
I understand how some people might be turned off if say, a mom who just had a baby 2 years ago and had a grande shower with a huge registry list decides to do the very same thing for baby #2 (or so on). You don't really need everything to be brand new for baby, just in good and usable condition. So that I get. But to celebrate with a smaller party with smaller gifts (mostly necessities like clothes and the like) is very much OK in my book.
That had nothing to do with why I didn't want a shower... I don't care what other people (strangers) say. Or think about how my life is lived. So another shower for baby number 4 it is. Today my mother in law told me to pick a date so she can start planning the shower (I have asked that it be on the smaller side though... I don't want to open gifts for the 4th time around in front of 40 something people). She wants to host the shower in July and so my job is to pick a date and help make invitations.
I guess I have to admit I am kind of thankful that I will be having a shower after all. It will take some of the burden off us and we'll be able to get a few smaller items that we won't have to buy right away ourselves. Also, it's just another excuse for my nearest and some of my dearest to get together and celebrate with me... it's been a while since the family has had a gathering and most of them hve not seen me pregnant as yet. Besides, after the horrible start I had to this pregnancy, it's nice to finally be able to celebrate it. I guess I look forward to the shower and I really hope I don't embarrass myself or cry.
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Friday, June 28, 2013
Fun Baby Stuff
So one of the best parts about being pregnant (again), is baby shopping. Baby stuff is just so darn cute (why do they have to make them so darn cute). Makes me want to get everything... but as a 4th time mommy, I know what I need and want and what I can do without.
I have been watching tons of you tube (love you tube as you know) about baby nurseries and best baby items. It's hard to not want what others have, especially hearing them rave about how great a product is. Plus, with so many new baby products on the market right now, it's hard to decide if I want to try them out or forgo them since I didn't need them or know about them the first 3 times.
I have heard a lot about certain products, namely a teether called 'Sophie the Giraffe', who parents RAVE about and a stuffed sheep that plays various sounds, called the sleep sheep. I doubt I'll get these, even though it seems like everybody and their mama has them.
I also hear a lot of brand names being thrown around, like Aiden and Anais?, a company that makes blankets. I heard they are the best around. And is it me, or is almost everyone these days using cloth diapers instead of disposables. I admire those moms who are cloth diapering but I know for sure it is not for me. I grew up in a era/country where the only diapers were cloth and having had to wash a few, I have to say, never again (although I have a washing machine now, I just don't have the interest in it). I love some of the names for the diapers though, like Bum genius. How cute is that? And I am in awe of how knowledgeable those cloth diapering mamas are... with all the inserts and all in ones and such (direct lines from you tube as I know not what these mean).
Also, with all the stuff, well, you need a place to put it all and many people like to put the stuff in a decked out baby nursery. I knew once I figured out the baby sleeping situation that I was not going to go all out with decorating a room for an infant. I did it with my daughter. I have had my fill. But wow, are some of those nurseries nice. Makes me want to reconsider some days... so I think I can compromise and do some decorating but still stick to my guns by not going overboard.
After much time on the net looking at baby stuff, I had to make my list of what I would want for the baby besides the usual and necessary items like diapers and wipes, which I'll wait to buy after my baby 'sprinkle' (a new term I picked up on a website about smaller type baby showers). I figure stuff like blankets and bibs can be bought in the later stages as they are less pricey, plus I have a few that can hold me over until baby comes so I am fine. It is true that babies don't need much anyway, just to to be fed, held and changed every so often.
What I want to focus on are the bigger, more expensive baby items I will need for baby. So far, we got the bouncer. Love bouncy seats and the one we have has a vibration button, which I think is essential for a fussy baby.
the bouncer we bought in a different color scheme
We got a bath tub, which I am in love with and cannot wait to use. It comes with a newborn sling, which is nice. And even though it was on the pricier side of what I wanted to pay for a bath tub, I figure I'll get a good couple of years out of it (it says birth to toddler...which is longer than most baby items lasts.)
the Summer Infant bath tub we bought
We also got the playmat gym, an essential item in my house with an infant. We lucked out and found a very affordable one at the most unlikely of places: Bebe Mundo. I say this because Bebe Mundo is a baby store much like Babies r us, on the pricier side when it comes to baby items. Somehow they had affordable options for us less well off folks. I cannot wait for baby to use the playmat.
Becca Baby playmat... we have different hanging toys
We also got the pack and play. We opted NOT to get a crib so the pack and play was the BIG purchase for us. I wanted an all in one, with bassinet and change station but wanted one that was affordable. The ones we saw at Universal were pretty spendy, at $200+ a pop. We lucked out and got one at Bebe Mundo for around $180. I know I could have found one cheaper (I got one for Princess for around $50 at Pequeno Mundo but it was not as nice as the one we purchased.) It comes with a little mobile, a place for diapers and wipes and the best part, a music station so I can play songs for the baby or let the bassinet vibrate. And of course it grows with baby. After baby gets too big for the bassinet portion, he can use the play pen portion until he's about 2, at which time we can get him a toddler bed.
our pack and play looks similar to this, different brand though and more vibrant colors
And the last item we bought was the high chair. Not that baby needs a high chair right away but we just could not pass up the great deal at Bebe Mundo (color me surprised again), where we spotted a super neat chair for less then the almost $200 price tag we saw them for at Universal and other boutique type stores at the mall.
our high chair is an Infanti brand in different colors, but similar to this in style
We figure we'll go shopping once a month or so and pick up items we need until we're done... hoping to get 2 or 3 items in each trip. I mean, I love to shop. And baby shopping is just so much fun. What better way to gear up for baby than buying cute things you now your baby will love?
I have been watching tons of you tube (love you tube as you know) about baby nurseries and best baby items. It's hard to not want what others have, especially hearing them rave about how great a product is. Plus, with so many new baby products on the market right now, it's hard to decide if I want to try them out or forgo them since I didn't need them or know about them the first 3 times.
I have heard a lot about certain products, namely a teether called 'Sophie the Giraffe', who parents RAVE about and a stuffed sheep that plays various sounds, called the sleep sheep. I doubt I'll get these, even though it seems like everybody and their mama has them.
I also hear a lot of brand names being thrown around, like Aiden and Anais?, a company that makes blankets. I heard they are the best around. And is it me, or is almost everyone these days using cloth diapers instead of disposables. I admire those moms who are cloth diapering but I know for sure it is not for me. I grew up in a era/country where the only diapers were cloth and having had to wash a few, I have to say, never again (although I have a washing machine now, I just don't have the interest in it). I love some of the names for the diapers though, like Bum genius. How cute is that? And I am in awe of how knowledgeable those cloth diapering mamas are... with all the inserts and all in ones and such (direct lines from you tube as I know not what these mean).
Also, with all the stuff, well, you need a place to put it all and many people like to put the stuff in a decked out baby nursery. I knew once I figured out the baby sleeping situation that I was not going to go all out with decorating a room for an infant. I did it with my daughter. I have had my fill. But wow, are some of those nurseries nice. Makes me want to reconsider some days... so I think I can compromise and do some decorating but still stick to my guns by not going overboard.
After much time on the net looking at baby stuff, I had to make my list of what I would want for the baby besides the usual and necessary items like diapers and wipes, which I'll wait to buy after my baby 'sprinkle' (a new term I picked up on a website about smaller type baby showers). I figure stuff like blankets and bibs can be bought in the later stages as they are less pricey, plus I have a few that can hold me over until baby comes so I am fine. It is true that babies don't need much anyway, just to to be fed, held and changed every so often.
What I want to focus on are the bigger, more expensive baby items I will need for baby. So far, we got the bouncer. Love bouncy seats and the one we have has a vibration button, which I think is essential for a fussy baby.
the bouncer we bought in a different color scheme
We got a bath tub, which I am in love with and cannot wait to use. It comes with a newborn sling, which is nice. And even though it was on the pricier side of what I wanted to pay for a bath tub, I figure I'll get a good couple of years out of it (it says birth to toddler...which is longer than most baby items lasts.)
the Summer Infant bath tub we bought
We also got the playmat gym, an essential item in my house with an infant. We lucked out and found a very affordable one at the most unlikely of places: Bebe Mundo. I say this because Bebe Mundo is a baby store much like Babies r us, on the pricier side when it comes to baby items. Somehow they had affordable options for us less well off folks. I cannot wait for baby to use the playmat.
Becca Baby playmat... we have different hanging toys
We also got the pack and play. We opted NOT to get a crib so the pack and play was the BIG purchase for us. I wanted an all in one, with bassinet and change station but wanted one that was affordable. The ones we saw at Universal were pretty spendy, at $200+ a pop. We lucked out and got one at Bebe Mundo for around $180. I know I could have found one cheaper (I got one for Princess for around $50 at Pequeno Mundo but it was not as nice as the one we purchased.) It comes with a little mobile, a place for diapers and wipes and the best part, a music station so I can play songs for the baby or let the bassinet vibrate. And of course it grows with baby. After baby gets too big for the bassinet portion, he can use the play pen portion until he's about 2, at which time we can get him a toddler bed.
our pack and play looks similar to this, different brand though and more vibrant colors
And the last item we bought was the high chair. Not that baby needs a high chair right away but we just could not pass up the great deal at Bebe Mundo (color me surprised again), where we spotted a super neat chair for less then the almost $200 price tag we saw them for at Universal and other boutique type stores at the mall.
our high chair is an Infanti brand in different colors, but similar to this in style
We figure we'll go shopping once a month or so and pick up items we need until we're done... hoping to get 2 or 3 items in each trip. I mean, I love to shop. And baby shopping is just so much fun. What better way to gear up for baby than buying cute things you now your baby will love?
Thursday, June 27, 2013
I'm Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak!!!!
Yup, it's been far too long and so much has happened it's like old news already. I wanted to post details of the wedding along with pics, but didn't get to that... I promise I will.
I wanted to blog about our awesome honeymoon, but again, didn't get around to it.
I wanted to ring in the new year with updates on married life and such... and again, you guessed it. Didn't happen.
So why didn't I do any of these things? And why have I not blogged in over 7 months? Hold on to your britches because I have HUGE news.
I am............................. PREGNANT!!!!!
Yes, baby number 4 is on HIS way and due in late August/early September. And no, this was not our 'plan'. As you already know, we have three beautiful, awesome children and we were, for all intense and purposes, DONE, DONE, done! Well, God had other plans.
So this might be a long blog post as I am going to try to condense literally 7 months worth of stuff into one post. Let me start from the top.
See, we went on honeymoon after all my family left. I couldn't wait to go. I needed a break from the kids, the house and just everything. Plus, we just had gotten married and I wanted to feel like a newlywed.... what better way to celebrate the start of a marriage than with a honeymoon. Well, that will be the honeymoon to remember for sure. I'll have to remember to blog about it in detail another day.
After coming home, things slowly started getting back to normal. I packed up the wedding stuff and got my house back to it's natural state (after 12 or so people staying here, it was a mess). Then I got some bad news (my older son, P, had to repeat 6th grade). And then bam, hubby was out of a job. He found one quickly though, thank heavens. Christmas came and went and I was looking forward to the new year. I had such big plans. I was going to work from home again and look into starting a wedding planning business on the side. I was excited for 2013. And then I missed my period. I NEVER miss my period. it's not always "on time", but I never miss it..... UNLESS I am pregnant. And I know this from previous experience (3 times).
I was in denial though. I figured maybe delayed wedding stress caused me to miss it (I was way too relaxed as a bride during planning). So I waited until January before freaking out. Well, there was no denying the fact when I started getting sick. I always get sick with my pregnancies. And when I say sick, I mean morning sickness all day and night sick. I still tried to think that maybe something else was wrong though, as I just could not believe it.
Well, I won't go into the sordid details, as I am trying to get over that, but I was not a happy camper when the real reality of my pregnancy finally sunk in. I became VERY sad, some might even say 'depressed'. I was in bed and sick and sad for literally 4 entire months. I would have days I would just cry out of pure sadness.
I was dreading the whole process of being pregnant (after all, I had worked so hard to get my body back after back to back pregnancies 5 years prior). I was dreading the whole idea of having to start all over again with a newborn: sleepless nights, poopy diapers, the crying, the expense, the potty training, ugh! I was just one big mess and everyone was worried about me. I finally started to pull myself out of my funk, slowly. And by around the 5th month mark, I was feeling better (not only was the morning sickness abating, but my mind was clearing as well).
I started to think positive and about all the joys of having another baby. The more I thought about the positive, the better I felt. I decided to focus on the good and forget the bad so I started daydreaming about baby and planning for baby.
First thing I had to figure out was where to PUT the baby. We have a small house. We already have 3 kids occupying 3 bedrooms. I really didn't want any of the kids to have to share. Then the idea hit. As small as our house is (well, it's modest, maybe not so small), we still had 2 'extra' rooms we could put to other usage: we had the office and the toy/play room.
I didn't want to use the toy room as a nursery. It just wouldn't work BUT the office would be perfect. The more I thought about the baby having his own little nursery, the more excited I got about things I could buy to fill it. I wasn't going to go crazy or anything: it is our 4th baby, so I am not that gung-ho about decor and crap like that. But with a room of his own, I could put a few small details to make it his.
I had some days where I felt better than others, energy wise. But as soon as I felt well enough, I got to work. First, I got my house back into shape (being sick for so long, I kind of neglected a lot of stuff.) I organized the toy-room, then cleaned out the office and put the stuff from the office into the toy-room, essentially making it an all purpose room. I did leave the computer and desk in the now former office however for very good reasons: first, there is no place else to put the computer as the office has the modem and internet. Second, the playroom has no plugs. It works for now. We barely use the office as an office anymore anyway (long story with the computer). Plus, babies are so tiny, they don't need much space.
The computer desk has use as storage for a few baby items that serve as decoration right now until baby comes, like a few soft books and toys and his shoes. That was the big benefit of cleaning out the toy-room. I found a few stuffed animals and baby toys that will be perfect for baby once he comes. I even went through my kids stuff and found blankets and some clothes from when my little JC was a baby.
We've also been shopping for baby stuff, trying to stockpile a few items before the baby gets here. Sad to say, but we gave everything away after I was sure I was done having kids. All the cool items I had with Princess and JC are all gone. The crib, the swing, the highchair, the bouncy chair, bathtub, pack and play, etc.... all gone to good homes. So we have to start from scratch. I did get lots of baby clothes from hubby's cousin, who just had a baby 5 months ago and even my mother in law bought some cute stuff. Now with my mind in the right place, I can get excited about this baby and enjoy the pregnancy (although to be honest, this pregnancy is a b!tch...everything hurts). But I can deal.
I feel like I've covered a ton... or tried to. And before this blog gets too winded and LONG, I'll just say that I'll be blogging more often now that I feel a ton better (and now that we have use of my mother in laws laptop). It'll be a lot of baby blogging as I did with the wedding when I was wedding planning. But at least you don't have to read about my pregnancy for 9 whole months... only 2 left to go. And with that, I bid adieu until the very near future.
I wanted to blog about our awesome honeymoon, but again, didn't get around to it.
I wanted to ring in the new year with updates on married life and such... and again, you guessed it. Didn't happen.
So why didn't I do any of these things? And why have I not blogged in over 7 months? Hold on to your britches because I have HUGE news.
I am............................. PREGNANT!!!!!
Yes, baby number 4 is on HIS way and due in late August/early September. And no, this was not our 'plan'. As you already know, we have three beautiful, awesome children and we were, for all intense and purposes, DONE, DONE, done! Well, God had other plans.
So this might be a long blog post as I am going to try to condense literally 7 months worth of stuff into one post. Let me start from the top.
See, we went on honeymoon after all my family left. I couldn't wait to go. I needed a break from the kids, the house and just everything. Plus, we just had gotten married and I wanted to feel like a newlywed.... what better way to celebrate the start of a marriage than with a honeymoon. Well, that will be the honeymoon to remember for sure. I'll have to remember to blog about it in detail another day.
After coming home, things slowly started getting back to normal. I packed up the wedding stuff and got my house back to it's natural state (after 12 or so people staying here, it was a mess). Then I got some bad news (my older son, P, had to repeat 6th grade). And then bam, hubby was out of a job. He found one quickly though, thank heavens. Christmas came and went and I was looking forward to the new year. I had such big plans. I was going to work from home again and look into starting a wedding planning business on the side. I was excited for 2013. And then I missed my period. I NEVER miss my period. it's not always "on time", but I never miss it..... UNLESS I am pregnant. And I know this from previous experience (3 times).
I was in denial though. I figured maybe delayed wedding stress caused me to miss it (I was way too relaxed as a bride during planning). So I waited until January before freaking out. Well, there was no denying the fact when I started getting sick. I always get sick with my pregnancies. And when I say sick, I mean morning sickness all day and night sick. I still tried to think that maybe something else was wrong though, as I just could not believe it.
Well, I won't go into the sordid details, as I am trying to get over that, but I was not a happy camper when the real reality of my pregnancy finally sunk in. I became VERY sad, some might even say 'depressed'. I was in bed and sick and sad for literally 4 entire months. I would have days I would just cry out of pure sadness.
I was dreading the whole process of being pregnant (after all, I had worked so hard to get my body back after back to back pregnancies 5 years prior). I was dreading the whole idea of having to start all over again with a newborn: sleepless nights, poopy diapers, the crying, the expense, the potty training, ugh! I was just one big mess and everyone was worried about me. I finally started to pull myself out of my funk, slowly. And by around the 5th month mark, I was feeling better (not only was the morning sickness abating, but my mind was clearing as well).
I started to think positive and about all the joys of having another baby. The more I thought about the positive, the better I felt. I decided to focus on the good and forget the bad so I started daydreaming about baby and planning for baby.
First thing I had to figure out was where to PUT the baby. We have a small house. We already have 3 kids occupying 3 bedrooms. I really didn't want any of the kids to have to share. Then the idea hit. As small as our house is (well, it's modest, maybe not so small), we still had 2 'extra' rooms we could put to other usage: we had the office and the toy/play room.
I didn't want to use the toy room as a nursery. It just wouldn't work BUT the office would be perfect. The more I thought about the baby having his own little nursery, the more excited I got about things I could buy to fill it. I wasn't going to go crazy or anything: it is our 4th baby, so I am not that gung-ho about decor and crap like that. But with a room of his own, I could put a few small details to make it his.
I had some days where I felt better than others, energy wise. But as soon as I felt well enough, I got to work. First, I got my house back into shape (being sick for so long, I kind of neglected a lot of stuff.) I organized the toy-room, then cleaned out the office and put the stuff from the office into the toy-room, essentially making it an all purpose room. I did leave the computer and desk in the now former office however for very good reasons: first, there is no place else to put the computer as the office has the modem and internet. Second, the playroom has no plugs. It works for now. We barely use the office as an office anymore anyway (long story with the computer). Plus, babies are so tiny, they don't need much space.
The computer desk has use as storage for a few baby items that serve as decoration right now until baby comes, like a few soft books and toys and his shoes. That was the big benefit of cleaning out the toy-room. I found a few stuffed animals and baby toys that will be perfect for baby once he comes. I even went through my kids stuff and found blankets and some clothes from when my little JC was a baby.
We've also been shopping for baby stuff, trying to stockpile a few items before the baby gets here. Sad to say, but we gave everything away after I was sure I was done having kids. All the cool items I had with Princess and JC are all gone. The crib, the swing, the highchair, the bouncy chair, bathtub, pack and play, etc.... all gone to good homes. So we have to start from scratch. I did get lots of baby clothes from hubby's cousin, who just had a baby 5 months ago and even my mother in law bought some cute stuff. Now with my mind in the right place, I can get excited about this baby and enjoy the pregnancy (although to be honest, this pregnancy is a b!tch...everything hurts). But I can deal.
I feel like I've covered a ton... or tried to. And before this blog gets too winded and LONG, I'll just say that I'll be blogging more often now that I feel a ton better (and now that we have use of my mother in laws laptop). It'll be a lot of baby blogging as I did with the wedding when I was wedding planning. But at least you don't have to read about my pregnancy for 9 whole months... only 2 left to go. And with that, I bid adieu until the very near future.
Monday, December 24, 2012
Noel, Noel, The Angel Did Sing....
Well, Christmas is upon us and yet another year is about to come to a close. How quickly 2012 flew by. I cannot believe we're about to enter a new year already. It feels like just yesterday we celebrated the year 2012 and I had so much to look forward to this year. As 2013 approaches, here are the things that made 2012 a memorable one.
1: My oldest was in his last year as a primary school student, a very older 12 year old boy/man.
2: My daughter was finally turning 5.
3: My youngest son no longer a preschooler.
4: My daughter taking her very first trip on an airplane to the USA!
5: A nice family mini vacation (albeit sans my princess).
6: My new job!
7: My upcoming nuptials and all that that entailed (bridal shower, GIFTS!!!, bachelorette party, Serenata and rehearsal dinner with family and friends).
8: My wedding day (of course)!
9: Our honeymoon!
10: A 2012 Christmas (surviving the much talked about 12/21/12 Apocalypse.
Yes it was a memorable year, like so many before. BUT this was a really busy year for me and my family. It is the year I finally became a wife after all and married the man of my dreams and the father of my three beautiful and wonderful children. It's a year I will never forgot, that is for sure. It's also the year my daughter will forever remember as it was the year she took her very first BIG trip without us to the great America. It's a year that my family will remember too, as many of them came to Costa Rica for the very first time. It was a year filled with amazing things and some hardship as well. The year started out, for us, on a bad note but really picked up as the months came and went. We hope the year will end with a good bang and looking forward to seeing what 2013 holds for me and my family. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!
1: My oldest was in his last year as a primary school student, a very older 12 year old boy/man.
2: My daughter was finally turning 5.
3: My youngest son no longer a preschooler.
4: My daughter taking her very first trip on an airplane to the USA!
5: A nice family mini vacation (albeit sans my princess).
6: My new job!
7: My upcoming nuptials and all that that entailed (bridal shower, GIFTS!!!, bachelorette party, Serenata and rehearsal dinner with family and friends).
8: My wedding day (of course)!
9: Our honeymoon!
10: A 2012 Christmas (surviving the much talked about 12/21/12 Apocalypse.
Yes it was a memorable year, like so many before. BUT this was a really busy year for me and my family. It is the year I finally became a wife after all and married the man of my dreams and the father of my three beautiful and wonderful children. It's a year I will never forgot, that is for sure. It's also the year my daughter will forever remember as it was the year she took her very first BIG trip without us to the great America. It's a year that my family will remember too, as many of them came to Costa Rica for the very first time. It was a year filled with amazing things and some hardship as well. The year started out, for us, on a bad note but really picked up as the months came and went. We hope the year will end with a good bang and looking forward to seeing what 2013 holds for me and my family. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Wedding Expectations
So while the wedding exceeded my wildest dreams, there were still some things that were unexpected, as is the case with any large event.
First off, there were the inevitable no-shows. However, there were also the inevitable people who don't RSVP but show up anyway, so it balanced out perfectly.
There were more kids than I planned for...but again, that balanced out itself as some of them were too happy and excited to eat (my own 3 kids skipped out on dinner after filling up on candy and appetizers).
Things did not go as planned and it was still all good.... no one would have known (well, except for the hour late start).
I peed on my dress.... OOPS! LOL
I ripped my dress... a minor rip than can be fixed. BUT everyone LOVED it and all the girls kept coming up to me and telling me how I looked like a princess. Thanks girls.
I wanted to make a personalized thank you speech that I typed out and then misplaced. So I just spoke from the heart, with tears flowing. It was more organic and real and so much more me.
I hadn't planned on or asked anyone to make a toast, people just knew to do that. They are all sweet and perfect.
There was thankfully enough alcohol.
I hadn't planned on spending so much money but my simple wedding was an extravagant affair that left guests in awe.
I wanted to take more photos of myself and of me and the groom. But my relaxed attitude the day off made me too lax to care.
I forgot to video tape. Well, I didn't forget.. I had my camera. BUT hubby's friends were supposed to videotape and they forget to get tape. I have no footage of the ceremony (which was funny and sweet and oh so perfect) or the reception, except for a few images of people eating... a quick video we asked hubby's cousin to capture. That is the ONE thing I would change if I could: get some damn video footage.
I wanted a warm, sunny day: what I got was an overcast and rainy one. Thankfully it was just sprinkling not a downpour and it was noticeably and thankfully warmer on my wedding day than it had been days prior.
I misplaced my sister's Nicholas Sparks reading and my personal vows. Glad I did though (my vows) as I was too emotional to really speak and broke down when saying my I Do's.
The candy buffet was a hit and miss. Kids started eating the candy even before we got there. No one took candy to go in the personalized bags I had. But it was all pretty much gone by the end of the night and so in that sense, the kids enjoyed it. I wish they had taken some home in the bags though.
I am not sure how the cocktail hour snacks were set up... I didn't get a chance to see it or taste the goodies. They were all gone by the time the ceremony and receiving line was over. I am glad people enjoyed it though.
The money dance was nice but not what we expected at all. However, our gift table was overflowing, which was also something we were not expecting.
The decor and the food were both magnificent... exceeded our expectations. The centerpieces were a 1000 times better than we could have ever imagined and guests raved about the food.
It was quite simply, the wedding of my dreams.
First off, there were the inevitable no-shows. However, there were also the inevitable people who don't RSVP but show up anyway, so it balanced out perfectly.
There were more kids than I planned for...but again, that balanced out itself as some of them were too happy and excited to eat (my own 3 kids skipped out on dinner after filling up on candy and appetizers).
Things did not go as planned and it was still all good.... no one would have known (well, except for the hour late start).
I peed on my dress.... OOPS! LOL
I ripped my dress... a minor rip than can be fixed. BUT everyone LOVED it and all the girls kept coming up to me and telling me how I looked like a princess. Thanks girls.
I wanted to make a personalized thank you speech that I typed out and then misplaced. So I just spoke from the heart, with tears flowing. It was more organic and real and so much more me.
I hadn't planned on or asked anyone to make a toast, people just knew to do that. They are all sweet and perfect.
There was thankfully enough alcohol.
I hadn't planned on spending so much money but my simple wedding was an extravagant affair that left guests in awe.
I wanted to take more photos of myself and of me and the groom. But my relaxed attitude the day off made me too lax to care.
I forgot to video tape. Well, I didn't forget.. I had my camera. BUT hubby's friends were supposed to videotape and they forget to get tape. I have no footage of the ceremony (which was funny and sweet and oh so perfect) or the reception, except for a few images of people eating... a quick video we asked hubby's cousin to capture. That is the ONE thing I would change if I could: get some damn video footage.
I wanted a warm, sunny day: what I got was an overcast and rainy one. Thankfully it was just sprinkling not a downpour and it was noticeably and thankfully warmer on my wedding day than it had been days prior.
I misplaced my sister's Nicholas Sparks reading and my personal vows. Glad I did though (my vows) as I was too emotional to really speak and broke down when saying my I Do's.
The candy buffet was a hit and miss. Kids started eating the candy even before we got there. No one took candy to go in the personalized bags I had. But it was all pretty much gone by the end of the night and so in that sense, the kids enjoyed it. I wish they had taken some home in the bags though.
I am not sure how the cocktail hour snacks were set up... I didn't get a chance to see it or taste the goodies. They were all gone by the time the ceremony and receiving line was over. I am glad people enjoyed it though.
The money dance was nice but not what we expected at all. However, our gift table was overflowing, which was also something we were not expecting.
The decor and the food were both magnificent... exceeded our expectations. The centerpieces were a 1000 times better than we could have ever imagined and guests raved about the food.
It was quite simply, the wedding of my dreams.
Wedding Week Wackyness
It was a crazy week leading up to the wedding so I wanted to kind of do one blog before I did individual posts about each event.
The weekend before the wedding saw me running errands and getting all the important information I needed for the officiating lawyer.
Monday the 19th, I had a facial, which left me relaxed and my skin as smooth as silk. I am hoping I can do this more regularly.
Tuesday the 20th I paid my florist bill and met with baker to finalize details. I also made a Yamuni pit stop. My sister in law made it into town.
Wednesday the 21st, I had to shop for Thanksgiving. Yes, amid all the wedding craziness, I decided to also host and make Thanksgiving dinner for my out of town family.
Thursday the 22nd was Thanksgiving Day and the arrival of my uncle and aunt as well as my mom, step-dad, 2 brothers, 2 sisters and 2 nephews. It was a FULL house. Thankfully, my uncle and aunt were only stopping by as they had a hotel room booked for their one week stay. I also had to make my final payment to reception venue. It was a hectic day filled with cooking, cleaning and errands. The food was delicious though...and the turkey was a huge hit.
Friday the 23rd was my bachelorette party (more in detail post coming soon). It was also the night of my Serenata (pics to follow). I also had to take my sisters and mom for their fittings, attend my massage appointment (I actually feel asleep), pick up rental items and pay baker the final payment. It also marked the arrival of my grandma, my uncle's wife and my cousin and her husband. Everyone from out of time had finally arrived.
Saturday the 24th was hectic. I had to get my nails and pedicure, have my hair washed, blow dried and flat ironed, pick up table linens from the caterer, and just basically get everything organized and packed up and finish every last minute detail. I am so thankful I had help. It was a late night.
The weekend before the wedding saw me running errands and getting all the important information I needed for the officiating lawyer.
Monday the 19th, I had a facial, which left me relaxed and my skin as smooth as silk. I am hoping I can do this more regularly.
Tuesday the 20th I paid my florist bill and met with baker to finalize details. I also made a Yamuni pit stop. My sister in law made it into town.
Wednesday the 21st, I had to shop for Thanksgiving. Yes, amid all the wedding craziness, I decided to also host and make Thanksgiving dinner for my out of town family.
Thursday the 22nd was Thanksgiving Day and the arrival of my uncle and aunt as well as my mom, step-dad, 2 brothers, 2 sisters and 2 nephews. It was a FULL house. Thankfully, my uncle and aunt were only stopping by as they had a hotel room booked for their one week stay. I also had to make my final payment to reception venue. It was a hectic day filled with cooking, cleaning and errands. The food was delicious though...and the turkey was a huge hit.
Friday the 23rd was my bachelorette party (more in detail post coming soon). It was also the night of my Serenata (pics to follow). I also had to take my sisters and mom for their fittings, attend my massage appointment (I actually feel asleep), pick up rental items and pay baker the final payment. It also marked the arrival of my grandma, my uncle's wife and my cousin and her husband. Everyone from out of time had finally arrived.
Saturday the 24th was hectic. I had to get my nails and pedicure, have my hair washed, blow dried and flat ironed, pick up table linens from the caterer, and just basically get everything organized and packed up and finish every last minute detail. I am so thankful I had help. It was a late night.
Vendor Review
Soon I'll have to post pictures.... but I wanted to review my vendors first. I had amazing vendors. And all are budget friendly. They truly went above and beyond to make my day amazing and a simple thank you just does not seem enough.
GloboFiesta Catering: http://serviciosglobofiesta.com/site/
I cannot say enough good things about Alejandro and Salvador. What an amazing company and team. As I blogged before, Salvador was the one who sought me out and along with his boss, Alejandro, was willing to work with me and my budget to give me what I wanted in a price that was accommodating to my wallet. The food was top notch, the service was amazing and the waitstaff so friendly, I got comments from guests about how much they loved everything. I can't wait to use this company again one day soon. A++
Maria Selva Flortisteria: www.conocerempresascr.com
The very first vendor I booked turned out to be my best vendor experience. She not only worked with my budget but even gave me more than I asked for. She went above and beyond to make sure the bouquets bouts and centerpieces looked amazing. When I met with her, I gave her my budget, which was already pretty low. But when I told her what I wanted included in that budget, she was more than willing to make it work. The centerpieces were more than what I expected or could have dreamed about. She was even willing to change around a few last minute details so I could get her to not only set up the centerpieces for me, but to deliver them as well. Amazing person, amazing vendor. A+++
Transportation: Jorge Hernandez
A last minute addition to the budget, I am so glad I was able to squeeze this in: it allowed us to provide a ride for our guests that needed one to the ceremony and reception. The bus was spacious, airy and very comfortable and guests appreciated the thought and gesture. And for the price, I won't complain. I do wish they had decided to provide transportation in the price from the reception for guest who needed a ride home, but se la vie. A
Pasteleria La Familia Bakery
As a local family owned bakery, I didn't expect much from this vendor: just a decent tasting 4 tiered cake with simple decor. But the owner went above for me and actually delivered and set up the cake at the reception for me at o additional charge: now that is how you get repeat business. I saw the cake for the first time at the reception and was very happy with the result. The actual cake was pretty good too, although a little on the drier side so not as moist as the one I tasted. Guests indulged though and I heard no complaints. For all his hard work I was very happy with the outcome. A
Foto Digital Madrigal
Can I review a vendor even before I see their finished product. I have yet to hear from my photographer, after he told me he would contact me just 3 days after the wedding. I have not had an email or a phone call and I still have to pay $60 (not paid until I get my pictures). I have been waiting and waiting and even sent an email but have not gotten a response. I figure they are busy and it does take some time to print and edit pictures to a professional standard. So I wait. However, I will review the photographer's actual service, which was outstanding. He showed up on time (early actually) and needed no direction. He got right to work taking detail shots, candid shots and a few posed shots as well. He was quick and efficient, a true professional and took any pictures I wanted. I didn't even notice him during the ceremony until after the I do's. And at the reception, he got right to work with the formal shots. His ideas were funny and cute and sweet and I know the shots he got will look great. Also, before he left, he let us know he had gotten all the shots he needed but wanted to make sure we were Ok with that or if he should stay some more. I hope we did get a lot of pictures. A for service.
Eventos Don Carias: ineventos.com
The space alone speaks for itself but the owner stepping in to lend us a helping hand was unexpected. Everyone loved the space. So looking forward to renting this space again. A+++
Eventos San Antonio: ineventos.com
Again, the space alone speaks for itself. People were literally blown away. The massively high ceilings and huge columns lend it to something out of a magazine. There was more than enough space for diners and dancers alike; did not feel cramped at all. The owner was pretty stand-offish and allowed us to do our thing. Even letting us get in a little earlier than usual to decorate. I would rent this space again. On a side note, I was a little miffed when I went to make my final payment as I found out that indeed, kids under 5 would have to pay if I was getting them their own seat, a very important detail I was not informed off. It worked out in the end but the extra dough I had hoped for went right back into the budget. A+++
Discomovil Energia: ineventos.com
What can I say about our DJ. Well, he did his job and people had fun. BUT he was a little bit of a disappointment because he did not follow my dance hall song list. He played typical music that typical Costa Ricans love but I wanted more of a dance hall club feel and he didn't deliver...not until my brother went in to lend a helping hand did he get it right. He also did not take directions well at the actual reception; for instance, when it was time for dinner, it took his assistant a long time to start the dinner music playlist. I had to tell him many times to do this as he kept playing dance music. But he got the entrance song, the first dance and the cake cutting songs correct. And when it came time for the dollar dance and bouquet and garter tosses, I just went in and did my thing so he could follow my lead. C
Officiant: Alberto Poveda
I have to be thankful for this guy. He stepped in at the eleventh hour to the rescue me after my original officiant bailed... thankfully she found him as my replacement and he did his job. He was very helpful in showing up to the rehearsal and allowing us to sign the documents there instead of at the actual ceremony. He seemed to take directions well and was willing to let us do anything we wanted to personalize our ceremony to our liking. He was also very detailed and gave me a list of everything I would need and was very communicative by email before the wedding. On the actual wedding day though, he seemed very nervous (like it was his first time officiating an actual wedding) and I had to cue my family for various portions of hte ceremony, like the reading, candle lighting and ring blessing. He did his job though, keeping the ceremony short and just as sweet. B
Staioner: Calle La Margura
We did all our own stationary and had everything printed up at a local print shop (with the exception of the programs) in this infamous area in San Pedro. With a plethora of look alike shops offering similar services, this one stood out. They had everything printed up the same day for us. And when they ran out of our preferred paper, they went looking for more, saving the day when they found some right in house. A
Wedding Planner
I did not have an actual wedding planner but I did have a day of helper/coordinator. Hubby's cousin gave me one the best gifts ever by agreeing to be my wedding helper for free. And she did an amazing job too. She isn't a professional by any means but she did a damn good job and saved me $300 bones. She kept everyone organized, kept track of my personal belongings, got the processional started and helped clean up the ceremony site. She was even on hand at the reception, in between enjoying her time as a guest, for anything I needed. She and I are actually thinking of going into business together... we're that good. A+++
Yakira Hair Salon: Guadalupe
I LOVED my hair and makeup trial but hated the price. I was not as happy with my hair and makeup on wedding day. Don't get me wrong, I looked great. But it was definitely not the same. Maybe it's because the person who did my hair and makeup at the trial (owner Yakira) did not do my hair and makeup on the big day. But I was happy with how quickly I was done. And in the end, I was still a smoking hot bride. Also, I got my nails and pedicure done at the same salon and was hugely disappointed. The nails took all day to dry which meant they got messed up by the end of the night the night before. Luckily, they were fixed the day off but they still weren't what I was expecting. I will never have my nails done at Yakira's again... the style they use and the product they use is not something I would recommend I have had my nails look 1000 times better on a regular day than they did for my wedding. C
Onix Ropperia (Grooms outfit)
This store saved the day in a BIG way After hubby's suit fail, this store was able to work with him on super short notice to find his suit, shoes, shirt, belt and a jeweled color in the blue that matched the wedding color. They also gave him a really good price and allowed us to pay for the suit and pay only a portion for everything else, giving him time to pay the rest at a later date. Hubby was stunningly handsome at the wedding. With a quick alterations to the pants the day we bought them, the suit fit perfectly. On a minor note: I accidentally threw away the jeweled collar and so he never got to wear it the day of the wedding. A
Clinica Ropa Nani
The lady who outfitted me and my bridal party gets 2 grades (one for the girls and one for the guys). For my dress, she gets an A (I LOVE my dress). It was tulle perfection and I felt like a princess. However, she didn't alter the dress like she was supposed to so it was a little big (however, that is mainly my fault for losing so much weight). For the bridesmaids dresses, she gets an A. The dresses were all gorgeous and all my maids look beautiful. However, she failed to take in 2 dresses, after being repeatedly told to do so. Oversight on her part maybe... she was super rushed after my sisters fittings. But for my bridesmaid C's dress, she had a few weeks to handle that alteration and still didn't do her job. As for hubby's suit fail... well, FAIL! And I still had to pay for it. She also made an extra bridesmaids dress (which is why I had to spend more money on material s for the vests.. BIG oops). I am not sure if all the stress of my wedding got to her. Also, all the groomsmen's vests were tight. She really dropped the ball. She gets an A for the girls and a D for the guys. Overall grade C-
Registry List: Yamuni
Oh, the troubles I went through with this store. Very accommodating but I had complaints from guests on multiple occasions about my list not being updated and the store people not being helpful. They finally got it right after my third trip but it was just unnecessary time I had to take to fix an issue they should have dealt with on their own. I like all the selection they have though and the varying prices for items. B
Aquileres Everest: napkins and chair covers
I am glad I took hubby's advice and rented chair covers. It brought the whole look together and made the reception that much more elegant. Napkins was something I decided to rent at the very last minute and I am glad I did; I just did not think paper napkins would have given me the right look I was after. The white cloth napkins brought the decor up to a standard that was pure elegance, worthy of a magazine spread. The whole room was so refined and beautiful and I know without the chair covers, it would not have looked so wonderful. The all white chair covers, white table linens and napkins made the blue and silver table squares pop. A
Esthetician:
I had my facial and massage done by a friend (I am guessing since I got the number from her) of my hair and makeup lady. The facial was relaxing and worked wonders for my skin and the massage was just what I needed right before the wedding. Also, the lady is super nice to boot. A
GloboFiesta Catering: http://serviciosglobofiesta.com/site/
I cannot say enough good things about Alejandro and Salvador. What an amazing company and team. As I blogged before, Salvador was the one who sought me out and along with his boss, Alejandro, was willing to work with me and my budget to give me what I wanted in a price that was accommodating to my wallet. The food was top notch, the service was amazing and the waitstaff so friendly, I got comments from guests about how much they loved everything. I can't wait to use this company again one day soon. A++
Maria Selva Flortisteria: www.conocerempresascr.com
The very first vendor I booked turned out to be my best vendor experience. She not only worked with my budget but even gave me more than I asked for. She went above and beyond to make sure the bouquets bouts and centerpieces looked amazing. When I met with her, I gave her my budget, which was already pretty low. But when I told her what I wanted included in that budget, she was more than willing to make it work. The centerpieces were more than what I expected or could have dreamed about. She was even willing to change around a few last minute details so I could get her to not only set up the centerpieces for me, but to deliver them as well. Amazing person, amazing vendor. A+++
Transportation: Jorge Hernandez
A last minute addition to the budget, I am so glad I was able to squeeze this in: it allowed us to provide a ride for our guests that needed one to the ceremony and reception. The bus was spacious, airy and very comfortable and guests appreciated the thought and gesture. And for the price, I won't complain. I do wish they had decided to provide transportation in the price from the reception for guest who needed a ride home, but se la vie. A
Pasteleria La Familia Bakery
As a local family owned bakery, I didn't expect much from this vendor: just a decent tasting 4 tiered cake with simple decor. But the owner went above for me and actually delivered and set up the cake at the reception for me at o additional charge: now that is how you get repeat business. I saw the cake for the first time at the reception and was very happy with the result. The actual cake was pretty good too, although a little on the drier side so not as moist as the one I tasted. Guests indulged though and I heard no complaints. For all his hard work I was very happy with the outcome. A
Foto Digital Madrigal
Can I review a vendor even before I see their finished product. I have yet to hear from my photographer, after he told me he would contact me just 3 days after the wedding. I have not had an email or a phone call and I still have to pay $60 (not paid until I get my pictures). I have been waiting and waiting and even sent an email but have not gotten a response. I figure they are busy and it does take some time to print and edit pictures to a professional standard. So I wait. However, I will review the photographer's actual service, which was outstanding. He showed up on time (early actually) and needed no direction. He got right to work taking detail shots, candid shots and a few posed shots as well. He was quick and efficient, a true professional and took any pictures I wanted. I didn't even notice him during the ceremony until after the I do's. And at the reception, he got right to work with the formal shots. His ideas were funny and cute and sweet and I know the shots he got will look great. Also, before he left, he let us know he had gotten all the shots he needed but wanted to make sure we were Ok with that or if he should stay some more. I hope we did get a lot of pictures. A for service.
Eventos Don Carias: ineventos.com
The space alone speaks for itself but the owner stepping in to lend us a helping hand was unexpected. Everyone loved the space. So looking forward to renting this space again. A+++
Eventos San Antonio: ineventos.com
Again, the space alone speaks for itself. People were literally blown away. The massively high ceilings and huge columns lend it to something out of a magazine. There was more than enough space for diners and dancers alike; did not feel cramped at all. The owner was pretty stand-offish and allowed us to do our thing. Even letting us get in a little earlier than usual to decorate. I would rent this space again. On a side note, I was a little miffed when I went to make my final payment as I found out that indeed, kids under 5 would have to pay if I was getting them their own seat, a very important detail I was not informed off. It worked out in the end but the extra dough I had hoped for went right back into the budget. A+++
Discomovil Energia: ineventos.com
What can I say about our DJ. Well, he did his job and people had fun. BUT he was a little bit of a disappointment because he did not follow my dance hall song list. He played typical music that typical Costa Ricans love but I wanted more of a dance hall club feel and he didn't deliver...not until my brother went in to lend a helping hand did he get it right. He also did not take directions well at the actual reception; for instance, when it was time for dinner, it took his assistant a long time to start the dinner music playlist. I had to tell him many times to do this as he kept playing dance music. But he got the entrance song, the first dance and the cake cutting songs correct. And when it came time for the dollar dance and bouquet and garter tosses, I just went in and did my thing so he could follow my lead. C
Officiant: Alberto Poveda
I have to be thankful for this guy. He stepped in at the eleventh hour to the rescue me after my original officiant bailed... thankfully she found him as my replacement and he did his job. He was very helpful in showing up to the rehearsal and allowing us to sign the documents there instead of at the actual ceremony. He seemed to take directions well and was willing to let us do anything we wanted to personalize our ceremony to our liking. He was also very detailed and gave me a list of everything I would need and was very communicative by email before the wedding. On the actual wedding day though, he seemed very nervous (like it was his first time officiating an actual wedding) and I had to cue my family for various portions of hte ceremony, like the reading, candle lighting and ring blessing. He did his job though, keeping the ceremony short and just as sweet. B
Staioner: Calle La Margura
We did all our own stationary and had everything printed up at a local print shop (with the exception of the programs) in this infamous area in San Pedro. With a plethora of look alike shops offering similar services, this one stood out. They had everything printed up the same day for us. And when they ran out of our preferred paper, they went looking for more, saving the day when they found some right in house. A
Wedding Planner
I did not have an actual wedding planner but I did have a day of helper/coordinator. Hubby's cousin gave me one the best gifts ever by agreeing to be my wedding helper for free. And she did an amazing job too. She isn't a professional by any means but she did a damn good job and saved me $300 bones. She kept everyone organized, kept track of my personal belongings, got the processional started and helped clean up the ceremony site. She was even on hand at the reception, in between enjoying her time as a guest, for anything I needed. She and I are actually thinking of going into business together... we're that good. A+++
Yakira Hair Salon: Guadalupe
I LOVED my hair and makeup trial but hated the price. I was not as happy with my hair and makeup on wedding day. Don't get me wrong, I looked great. But it was definitely not the same. Maybe it's because the person who did my hair and makeup at the trial (owner Yakira) did not do my hair and makeup on the big day. But I was happy with how quickly I was done. And in the end, I was still a smoking hot bride. Also, I got my nails and pedicure done at the same salon and was hugely disappointed. The nails took all day to dry which meant they got messed up by the end of the night the night before. Luckily, they were fixed the day off but they still weren't what I was expecting. I will never have my nails done at Yakira's again... the style they use and the product they use is not something I would recommend I have had my nails look 1000 times better on a regular day than they did for my wedding. C
Onix Ropperia (Grooms outfit)
This store saved the day in a BIG way After hubby's suit fail, this store was able to work with him on super short notice to find his suit, shoes, shirt, belt and a jeweled color in the blue that matched the wedding color. They also gave him a really good price and allowed us to pay for the suit and pay only a portion for everything else, giving him time to pay the rest at a later date. Hubby was stunningly handsome at the wedding. With a quick alterations to the pants the day we bought them, the suit fit perfectly. On a minor note: I accidentally threw away the jeweled collar and so he never got to wear it the day of the wedding. A
Clinica Ropa Nani
The lady who outfitted me and my bridal party gets 2 grades (one for the girls and one for the guys). For my dress, she gets an A (I LOVE my dress). It was tulle perfection and I felt like a princess. However, she didn't alter the dress like she was supposed to so it was a little big (however, that is mainly my fault for losing so much weight). For the bridesmaids dresses, she gets an A. The dresses were all gorgeous and all my maids look beautiful. However, she failed to take in 2 dresses, after being repeatedly told to do so. Oversight on her part maybe... she was super rushed after my sisters fittings. But for my bridesmaid C's dress, she had a few weeks to handle that alteration and still didn't do her job. As for hubby's suit fail... well, FAIL! And I still had to pay for it. She also made an extra bridesmaids dress (which is why I had to spend more money on material s for the vests.. BIG oops). I am not sure if all the stress of my wedding got to her. Also, all the groomsmen's vests were tight. She really dropped the ball. She gets an A for the girls and a D for the guys. Overall grade C-
Registry List: Yamuni
Oh, the troubles I went through with this store. Very accommodating but I had complaints from guests on multiple occasions about my list not being updated and the store people not being helpful. They finally got it right after my third trip but it was just unnecessary time I had to take to fix an issue they should have dealt with on their own. I like all the selection they have though and the varying prices for items. B
Aquileres Everest: napkins and chair covers
I am glad I took hubby's advice and rented chair covers. It brought the whole look together and made the reception that much more elegant. Napkins was something I decided to rent at the very last minute and I am glad I did; I just did not think paper napkins would have given me the right look I was after. The white cloth napkins brought the decor up to a standard that was pure elegance, worthy of a magazine spread. The whole room was so refined and beautiful and I know without the chair covers, it would not have looked so wonderful. The all white chair covers, white table linens and napkins made the blue and silver table squares pop. A
Esthetician:
I had my facial and massage done by a friend (I am guessing since I got the number from her) of my hair and makeup lady. The facial was relaxing and worked wonders for my skin and the massage was just what I needed right before the wedding. Also, the lady is super nice to boot. A
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